Most people don't get married because of love.

 　　All of life's encounters are the result of causes and conditions; we can only choose whether or not to accept the consequences.

　　Marriage is no exception. Meeting someone you love and who loves you, and living a happy and smooth life together for decades—isn't that a blessing you've cultivated through your past efforts? Moreover, among those blessed individuals, how many would invest their hard-earned "capital" in a mere few decades of love, vowing to be together for eternity? Don't make such vows lightly. Even if you are together, you won't be in control of your future. Many loving couples go from mutual support to mutual obstacles.

　　According to the principle of shared karma, an unsatisfactory partner only indicates a lack of personal blessings. Constantly complaining is quite pathetic, and there are many men and women like this in marriages.

　　Men who dislike their wives, arrogant and demanding—ask them, what makes you think you deserve such a beautiful woman? Look at yourself in the mirror! Still dreaming of being an emperor at your age? Women who dislike their husbands, resenting that they don't provide a good enough life—ask them, what are they worth? Still dreaming of being a princess at your age?

　　That's incredibly naive. If you don't like the fruit, you don't have to eat it; you might as well not get married at all. If you can't solve the problems before marriage, how can you expect your partner to suddenly become a rich, handsome, and beautiful woman after marriage? Frankly, you know the outcome won't be good; you just thought that having something to eat is better than nothing, and that people who don't get married are abnormal.

　　Since you've chosen to marry this person, they are your partner, and you should cherish each other. If they don't have the potential and still foolishly dislike you, you can break up sooner rather than later. Who's being punished by this stalemate?

　　The most pitiful ones are your children; they are paying the price for your naivety and lack of awareness! When you argue, have you ever thought about their fear? When you're desperate, when you cheat, have you ever thought about robbing them of a carefree childhood?

　　People should have self-awareness. When envisioning a bright and happy future, shouldn't you carefully consider your current situation? Don't make choices with unrealistic expectations… There are too many adults like this who are completely clueless!